I have been over everything regarding M, boundaries, and OM. Honestly, I wasn't thinking this time would be any different. This is why I wanted to get the perspective from someone looking in from the outside vs. just going based on my gut.
My W reached out to me after I started dating. I cannot remember if she knew at the time. However, she did get really ugly after she found out. My first reaction was that she was jealous and just trying to "win".
I have not brought up OM to W and the fact that I know she is still with him. Thanks for your thoughts on not "dating" my W. That was the path that I felt was correct. However, based on your last comment are you also suggesting to just continue to live my life or do I state my boundaries one last time as to why I won't date?
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
