You would need to act as if you were not interested in the cat (assuming the cat is feral).
But... my wife knows I'm interested. I've simply told her that she needs to drop OM, first. I don't want to act contrary to what I have already said.
Not that I have any expectations, but what if she simply tells me that she's done with OM? Are you suggesting that I play games? That I need her to pursue me?
The cat knows you are interested, you were just calling it, chasing it and reaching out. The cat comes to you when you are interesting, stimulating, relaxed and attractive to the cat.
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but what if she simply tells me that she's done with OM?
Don't believe her. She needs to show you thru consistent loving action. Follow her actions not her words when it comes to OM. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot, how would she act? What would you do to regain her trust?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
