I am in the same predicament, but i have not seen a lawyer, not sure she has but i do not think so. Issue i am really having is she has viewing access to my bank account. She is logging in every evening like at 1am which tells me she isnt sleeping very well. But if she says it is over, then why checking up on what i am spending my money on. Last time we seperated she was doing the same thing, i changed the password and she said it was just a way to control her. She doesnt do anything malicious just checking, i dont really want to tick her off. any ideas?


M - 42
W - 41
Married 9 years July 24, 2010
WAW moved out 8-9-10
2nd Marriage for Both
S 2
SS 13 from W first Marriage