This makes sense to me, but how will I know the difference between an "all-out-assault" and a test?
She will lead with her feelings. When her words, feelings and actions all line up then you will know. She will be pursuing you. She will be saying and doing all the things you went thru when you got bombed.
She is watching you right now. What you have done is very attractive but she wants to be sure (she wants to feel safe with you - that's the tests). How do you catch a cat?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.