Thanks for posting everyone. From all I have read, I think I have already "detached" or "dropped the rope".
I am living my GAL and just waiting for W to either file for D or come to senses. Just waiting it out. My atty recommended that I not do anything until she files and serves.
Next "talk" I expect will be her wanting to go cheap and use the same atty to which I will remind her that I do not want the D and if she want's it, she must file. I have the most bad ass D lawyer in town lined up.
She knows legal costs will exhaust all our meager savings, so that will ruin any silver lining to the outcome. She also knows that I intend to tell all D is her choice and not mine, which does not sit well with her, but it's the truth.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."