they really come back

[Sanderika]

Hello mdoodles,

I have followed along with you for a very long time now....

I have always admired your courage and strength.

I am happy to hear that you are in a good place and you and little son, I still want to call him that are doing so well.

Your H (I am surprised you are not divorced yet) is one amazing creature. I knew from the beginning that he would not be done with you. He never was and he never will be and it's such a shame the destruction that was caused by his selfish desires.

This is all so very sad. Your wonderful family in ruin and H still lurking...I mean, What do you really do with it all?

I am proud of you that you can enforce your boundaries and stick to them....I am not so able.

The old adage "You always want what you can't have" applies very well in your current sitch.

My H and I are just like you and your H, we get along absolutely great, almost like we are married and in love, with no chit going down between us. My H and I see each other very frequently, we have wonderful conversations and can laugh and sit with each other for hours. WTF?!?!

I am schedule for a final divorce hearing on January 13, 2011 and I am in shock that H and I are finally putting an end to our almost 32 year relationship. While I understand and can accept this now (you know I couldn't have before) I am still deeply saddened that two people who appear to have no problems with one another can actually divorce. For the record, OW is still in our picture, but hanging by a thread currently. H does not appear to spend much time with her.

I am curious where your divorce stands. Is your H possibly trying to salvage your relationship in the 11th hour?

It is so good to read your update, you are one marvelous lady

(((((Hugs to you and little son)))))

Sanderika