What WS says is true. We see strengths in you that you do not. I also see the continued need to shield H from bad publicity. That is not your job anymore. It's not your bad. He deals it, he takes the rap.
Backsliding; don't woriabotit. From your signature, I was a full three months ahead of you in the separation department. Go back and read my threads 3 months ago. I wasn't nearly as calm or detached as I am now. I was all over the place like a pinball. There are good days and bad days. Lately, mine have just been much more good than bad. You will also get to that point. Promise.
Finally, back to Warrior Shadow's wise words, would you really want to live with your H in the condition he is in now. Keeping his distance from you is almost a kindness in that it protects you from much of the shizbot he is going through.
Hey WS, I wonder if my H thinks my lawyer is an asshat? He has certainly learned his is. LOL
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
