H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[Mila]

Thank you Being, I actually would be OK if he came for Xmas Eve...if we would interact the same way as when we visited his dad, that is....he was almost like the old H. I wouldn't be doing it for him, but for D. And if he acepts that would mean that the OW would sit in his appartment all by herself...added bonus hehehe. And if he declines because of OW, he will feel bad about himself and maybe that will make him think about what he is giving up.

Yes it is weird that he suggested that all the gifts would be from US...I wasn't planning on it, I already bought her presents and he did buy one also...but it's OK with me....I guess it's good that he is still holding on to the idea of US, why discourage it?

Actually I received an email from H today asking me and D to go and visit his dad with him at Xmas. Also added that we should talk about gifts for his dad and his wife. For the past 33 years I was the one taking care of that, coming up with ideas and shopping for all the gifts for everyone, sending cards, organizing everything....looks like he wants my help again. So he will have the OW sitting in his apartment, while he takes his family to visit his dad....isn't that weird? Wonder what OW will think about that....