Good for you re the date, Mila. Your H is slowly finding out about the reality of a broken family, I think. I'm not sure if you should invite him for Christmas Eve ... it might be uncomfortable???? Also, the gift giving ... sharing the gift to D. Say what? Did I read that correctly? I wouldn't share the gift. This is one of the very few things kids do get out of D's .... getting more stuff, so why deny your D. Let her have two gifts.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
