Is dropping the rope like detaching or going dark? The analogy of dropping the rope was a great visual. My husband keeps giving me mixed messages. This week he has expressed interest in coming to church "with the kids, at a church a friend of our family attends." I can't decide if I need to set a boundry with this and tell him he needs to find a different church.

I feel like the more I drop the rope the more I become somewat of a doormat because I find myself on an emotional rollercoaster. I suppose for me, this is why boundries are necessary.

M = 10.5 years
H = 35
W = 39
D = 10
S = 12
SD = 19
Bomb Dropped = 10/27
EA = April