I can imagine how hard this was for you Sinclair and I have a lot of respect for the way you weighed up your decision.

I think you handled this very well. In similar circumstanes I told my wife I loved her very much and it was simply to painful for me to be with her while she was pursuing a relationship with someone else. The next several days are likely to be the worst. You may feel yourself going through what feels like withdrawal. Hang in there. It will get better.

I suggest you post here when you feel like contacting her or finding out what she's doing. Take good care of yourself and try to stay busy.