Bond-
I do have a thread - "its not over till its over". But I have not posted much lately. H moved out a month ago, not too much I can do right now. And i find when I do post I sound whiny and pathetic, so I try to limit myself smile. That is why I like what you said yesterday. I have got to get out of this funk. I have to like me before my h ever would and i don't right now.