my h and son gave me necklace

[MrBond]

rysmom,

Stop snooping on what your H is doing. Have you been telling your son all of this? You don't want to keep letting him have the same thoughts you do.

Did he actually say that he was heartbroken at what his father is doing? It doesn't sound like something that a teenage boy would say. Both of you could benefit with a professional. Please get help for both of you.