Irish,

Take some deep breaths please. I know it is hard. I had a court

on Monday and her lawyer is an asshat. It will get better Irish!

I have been at this a while now and I keep getting info that all

is not well with the MLC'r. Info W has no clue I know about.

Even with W going through with D, she may get what she wants but

I can assure you that all is not well in MLC land. I have

followed your sitch and I know how hard it is. YOU do have the

strength within YOU. I see it more in YOU than YOU can see in

yourself. Realize again that they are not the person you know.

That, you have to remind yourself daily. Depression is present

throughout the crisis BUT they hide it well in front of most.

It is still there though. They have to go through the whole thing

divorce or not. If they do not make it, you must realize that you

would not like to live with the alien the rest of your life. I

can tell you first hand that the alien is not a compatible

partner in ANY marriage. This may not be what you want to hear

right now but you will be ok.

WS