Have you ever read a book called the Solo Parnter? It takes at the end about the Pursuit and Distancer. It states that one person is always in this position, meaning someone is always chasing and the other one is trying be caught.
It said at sometime in order for the purser to catch the distancer they have to stop the pursuit. This is much like Harley's Plan B I would assume.
It is so true in that it always seems like someone is trying harder in the relationship. The fun is sometime in the chase and when you know that you have someone then it does not seem as great. What do you think? Did you ever have a guy in High School that you really like and thought he was cool. Then when you began to date him he did not seem as cool? I guess the samething happens in a marriage
