Living Like Roommates

[Sad_but_happy]

Punchy, I believe you gained respect from your W and a measure of self-respect for yourself. Do you feel any better?

At this point, if she does not decide what will YOU do?

You have told her it can't continue and I'm sure she agreed.

If she chooses OM, isn't that better then another year or two or three of pain, uncertainty, and limbo?

She DOES need to decide at some point...


I guess you can do nothing from here and let her continue to eat cake. Or you can set a boundary that clearly states what you will and will not tolerate in your M. You don't have to be harsh but I believe you have to be decisive.

I think it was a step in the right direction but would love to hear from Sandi2...