For me I looked at it like a science experiment. I was looking for a certain result and did a few things to exact that result. Some of the things I did acted like a catalyst to speed things up to a positive result, sometimes I would get a negative result. The things that got a negative result I stopped doing and did more of the positive things.
Of course that didn't stop me from sometimes getting caught on the rollercoaster as well. You are right. It is do-able. First step, get your balls back from your W so you're not driven by fear.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.