Thanks Bond,
I believe it is a man thing. We need direction one way or another. We are problem solvers.

And to a man this is a problem that needs to be solved.

Not solving it (good or bad) goes against our very being!

That's why I believe this is so difficult for men. We have to learn to think differently. Reprogram out brain.

Not easy but doable! smile


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012