Thanks Bond, I believe it is a man thing. We need direction one way or another. We are problem solvers.
And to a man this is a problem that needs to be solved.
Not solving it (good or bad) goes against our very being!
That's why I believe this is so difficult for men. We have to learn to think differently. Reprogram out brain.
Not easy but doable!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012