Sinclair, this hurts like H_ll but now even I'm attracted to you (kidding). But great job.
You just took away her cake. And to a WAW spoiled like a child having gotten what she wanted all this time (you and OM) she got sad, angry. She can't have her cake. Sha can't eat her cake. You took it away. NICE!
But she now sees a strong man that has dignity and self-respect. A man that will stand up for the HONOR of not only himself but his partner and his life.
And believe it or not, you just regained a tremendous amount of control. Control over YOUR life. I think you can see how much she was controling you. That is now over!
You now have given yourself the best chance possible of getting her back.
Great job and stay strong!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012