Yes, this is kind of what I suspected. I think she thinks that we will all still be one happy family after it is all over. I also suspect that she is setting me up so that she can file for the D without the guilt. Once she sees I am doing well again and functioning like a happy soul, she will drop the bomb on me and walk away feeling fine. Well, that is not going to happen. In the months since she left, I have decided on a couple of things that I won't waiver on when the D comes. One, I will get the house because I want it and she can't afford it anyway. And two, we will NOT be friends when this is over. I have a friend who went down that route and sometimes it is humiliating to watch him. Frankly, when this is over, I do hope I never have to see her again. I know that sounds harsh, but it is how I feel. I was her husband, not her god-damned friend!! If she wants friends, she can join a social club of some sort. I stood at the alter and told the world I would love her until I took my last breath. I don't remember anything in the vows about hanging out like "buds" once she decided to walk out on the past 15 years! I have all the friends I need. I wanted a wife...

Thanks to all.

Fellonblackdays

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...