we have had some positive encounters lately and feel ok in inviting him as a guest and expecting nothing more
That's how I feel as well with my H. I don't think him coming would ruin my evening...if you feel the same then why not...it would be nice for the kids to have both parents there for Xmas.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO