either way I believe my W to be done with this M if it turns out otherwise I will be shocked.
And how does that affect you? I would think it had a great deal of impact on the vibes you give off to her.
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I have fols from another board another method encouraging the exposure of the A
Okay, I thought we had already touched on that subject. Do you want us to talk you out of exposure or what? If you go to a dozen different boards & methods, you would not be any better off b/c you'd be more confused about what you need to do in your stitch. As it stands, you don't seem to be doing anything but waiting for her to file for a D.
Listen, I'm not beating you up for not knowing what is the best advice, but you've got to decide what program you trust and stop hopping around. You may not stop her from filing,but you can take charge over your own life. You can decide how you will think and choose. Right?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!