Thanks for your honest reply sandi.

I totally agree the "falling in love" feeling can happen IF given the chance.

TBH, I was totally checked out of my M over the summer. I accept my W's decision of not being with me. I was actively planning my life w/o her.

I was happy who I was and what I have learned from the boards.

Come to think of it, it was GW that told me~ I came here to these boards for the opportunity to save my M. I was given that chance that so many seek.
Honestly, if I hadn't heard these words written to me I could be D by now.

I was given the opportunity. I did not squader it.
So many people would kill to be in my shoes right now.
I am grateful for what I have.

(((hugs))) to you


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