I totally agree the "falling in love" feeling can happen IF given the chance.
TBH, I was totally checked out of my M over the summer. I accept my W's decision of not being with me. I was actively planning my life w/o her.
I was happy who I was and what I have learned from the boards.
Come to think of it, it was GW that told me~ I came here to these boards for the opportunity to save my M. I was given that chance that so many seek. Honestly, if I hadn't heard these words written to me I could be D by now.
I was given the opportunity. I did not squader it. So many people would kill to be in my shoes right now. I am grateful for what I have.
(((hugs))) to you
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