Thanks for the response dbmod.

My gut reaction is to initiate a R discussion and institute the last-last resort technique with the consequences/actions that go along with it and then start dating or not based on the response from W.

However, I wanted to really weigh my options and get input from folks on this board to see which form has had better success from people that have already been down this path.

I really appreciate the input on remorse. I started out thinking that I wouldn't move in the direction of reconciliation without first seeing remorse. However, a good friend pointed out that most likely it would take time.


M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10