Kemper, you've been on a long hard road. What you have to ask is WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE OF?
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Do I just “date” my W and see how it goes? Wait for her to initiate any and all R talks? My fear with this is it is possibly cake eating on both sides.
Don't fear what it possibly, do what gets you what you want, what brings you the relationship you want.
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My overall concern is that I have not seen or heard anything from my W that would indicate any remorse for her actions. I have read on the boards that without remorse there really isn’t a good chance at a successful reconciliation. I am not sure if remorse comes with time or if I shouldn’t even think about anything with my W without any signs of remorse.
This is a great question. Remorse isn't the initial thing usually. The lack of it now is not alarming. So many folks really insist on this right away, and it just isn't going to happen right away--but it may come.
