Am I piecing? Just can't tell...

[Sad_but_happy]

My IC is having a hard time with my position. She DOES know my W since our MC is part of the same office.

My IC is a divorced woman with a dughter. She has been jilted in the past (I can tell). She TRIES to stay neutral but I can tell that she does not feel what is happening to me is right.

I have toyed with the idea of getting a new IC. Not sure. She feels I should be able to talk to my W and ask if she is committed to the marriage. I'm sure she has never read DB/DR.