Sandi, thanks for posting that. I copied and saved it in my solution journal.
I have just realized that another statement I copied that says "the moment you let go of something you actually gain control over it" is so right that I added it to my signature.
That is how I feel right now about my sitch. I have finally let go, learned to focus on myself, really and truly detach. And true enough, my H stumbled, looked back, and i think is in the process of realizing that he doesn't want to go(still don't want to second guess). I have dropped the rope.

Pickle, you will know when you are ready. Good luck and God Bless. Keep on praying for guidance.

Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go