I have decided to let her spend Christmas day at the house. I pick up her Grandma every christmas around 7am so she can watch the kids open presents. This year, I will just have to leave a little earlier to pick up my w.
We talked about it once and I wont bring it up again. I will just show up, she either gets in the car or she doesnt, but I know she will get in the car.
I am reading the DR book alot slower this time and really trying to get my feelings and emotions in check. It is a struggle especially when she talks about OM but so far, so good.
I agree, he is a good time only, but she is missing her family. She gets up in the morning and plays POGO online and watches tv, thats it. OM is supporting her now, dont think this will last long. I honestly think she is in depression, she isnt taking care of herself (appearance) and she isnt sleeping. She has the biggest bags under her eyes.
I am not hoping for the world just yet, but i do see this as a positive. A baby step at a time.
