wife preparing to leave me and kids

[Sad_but_happy]

Hi dis, I'm new to the boards and my views are somewhat controversial, but it sounds like LRT to me.

She wants divorce and has filed
She is probably still seeing OM
She gives NO signs of wanting the R
She is looking at real estate

I think you need to leave her alone, enjoy your children and GAL. If she comes back great, and if she doesn't at least you're starting the process of getting your "new" life in order.

You may have no choice but to accept this NEW life but think of it this way; Can it be any worse than the past few months?

I'm praying for you dis...