it seems that your xH is realizing that you were not the cause of his unhappiness!
I hope so!
Originally Posted By: courageous wife
It sounds like he is reaching out...it could just be the holidays...
Yeah Holidays are def triggers.
Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
If he's not willing to agree with your conditions, then go dark. No movies, no texts, no phone calls. Action is the only way home.
Great advice SD. I love the "ACTION IS THE ONLY WAY HOME."
I agree with making a list about what I need/require but here's the thing, he hasn't SAID the words he wants to reconcile M. That is why it's weird.
So thus far I'm not going to worry my pretty little head over it.
I thought about what he said... if it's possible for us to forget everything and move forward... I don't know that.
I love him still. Always will. I just wonder if our time together is up. Tick tick tick ...that's the sound of our M running out (If any of you watch Showtime's Dexter, that should make you laugh). And then again, I'd love a reconcilation w/o all the BS. I would never want to go back to the place we were at. It wasn't all bad but it became a bad dynamic.
Fa la la la. I am listening to Xmas tunes. LOVE it! Christmas is so fun to me!
