Ruikee,

Maybe because based upon your posts, when you pick up or drop off your son your wife is pretty mean to you?

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When i dropped him off, we got him dressed and started to walk. So she then says, i know you are not going to like this and it will be hard to take, but my pastor has been talking about forgiveness, and i have asked God to forgive me for marrying you.


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every interaction with W now while exchanging the baby, she asks where i am going. I dropped him off on Thanksgiving morning. She said, i dont know why you are trying to get rid of him so early. You know we dont have dinner until 4.


That she attacks you through him, and also because being with just him reminds you of what is missing...her.

Ruikee, enjoy your son. Protect him from this as best you can, when your with him, force yourself into being happy around him.
Kids pick up on the smallest things.


PS -

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I whispered she was probably going to give me some bad news.


Don't do that crap unless you want to be a martyr, or for people to view you as one.



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