Get tested for STDs. Seriously. Re: the inappropriate relationship with a minor - yuck! You were right to cut it off w/ him if he was not behaving husbandly and still wanting to carry on a "friendship." I am dealt with that in my own sitch and it's annoying as hell. When do you plan to file? Also, regarding D, expect the worst. I know you say that you don't anticipate any problems re: finances but trust me, you NEVER know someone til you D them. I never ever imagined some of ths tuff that's gone on with mine would ever happen (i.e. him suing me for mortgage when he makes way more $ than I do -hahaha) so I am just issuing that as a caution-- gear up for battle.
