Well, its been a quiet couple of days. Yesterday, my w happened to see some ould comments by my friends on facebook. The comments were in regards to her pawning our wedding rings for $150.
She took great offense to it even though it didnt speak directly about her or the rings. She took such offense that she sent me a not so nice msge and deleted me as a friend.
I simply told her that i was a little hurt by this especially as the kids brought it to my attention that she had dropped me as a friend.
She texted me that it was not appropriate for my friends to say things on the internet etc. I told her that they were my best friends, this is how we communicate and nothing was said specifically and only her and them knew what it was in reference to. I said if she was going to act like a child then keep me off her friends list and i would be fine with it.
So from 1 til 3 yesterday afternoon, i got a text every 5 to 10 mins. The 1st one said "i am sorry for deleting you, i did it in a moment of hurt. Please forgive my stupid behaviou. I have re added you. Do you forgive me?"
She just kept repeating the do you forgive me part for almost 2 hours! At that point she sent me a txt that asked if i was there and would i talk to her. I told her yes.
She called and right away said she over reacted, she was wrong and would i forgive me for her actions and harsh words. I told her I would but I wouldnt play these childish games with her. She said she was sorry and that she would not act that way anymore.
So kind of a twist that she needs me to forgive her for something so stupid. Is it normal for this kind of behaviour?
I do have to say, it felt good to see her lose control like that, to have to have me forgive her, even though it was something dumb.
