When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[kat727]

Let yourself mourn your Mom. It takes time even when you see it coming. To this day I still miss my grandmother terribly and it has been 13 years. I didn't feel as if I got to mourn properly. Everyone didn't understand why I didn't just get over it.(Mostly ex's family). With my Mom it just seemed to hurt her more to talk about her. I would go to her grave and talk to her quite often in the beginning. I go sometimes now when I want to be conforted.

Let people help you and take the time off if you have it. You need to not keep being bombarded by other people right now.

love ya. hugs, kat