We've seen it a hundred million times on these Boards; MLC=confusion. Also, the MLC'rs ability, rather inability, to accept responsibility for their own actions.
You are right, though, about moving on with your own life. Do you really want to be physically close to someone who could give you something Ajax can't scrub off? That's my thought on it. It's a far too dangerous world for multiple partners.
You may still love your H; I love mine, but at some point self-protection mode has to kick in.
It's a tough season. Look for the happy people in your life, that make life worth living, tie a knot and hang on. ((HUGS))
