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They said.. what you are doing is not acceptable. If you keep doing it.. I am gonna tell you why I don't like it.. and cut you off.



Problem that never happened. There was and is no discusion.

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But to me.. DB mods drew a line in the sand.


Not consistent or in the appliciation of that line. People were targeted then asked questions and got no response. No warning of what would happened if things continued.

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Why do the mods here owe you anything?


Never said that. Don't think it.

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Hurt feelings all around.


My feelings aren't hurt. I understand some of what has been done. The part that isn't logical is the lack of discusion from the other side, the one with editing capability.

I have never used the word "expose" on here. I am a firm believer in boundaries. When I coach I don't teach plays, I teach concepts - understand what the other team is doing and react in a effective way. And every game has rules (boundaries) otherwise a unscrupulous team/player has an advantage you don't because your values, beliefs and morals won't allow you to behave that way.

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If you were truly DB'ing you would find a way to get your point across.



My point is people should think for themselves. DB isn't the end all of advice, the tenents are adopted from other self-help programs. I understand DB early on because I had read it in numerous other places.

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They did exactly what a vast majority of the "old timers" recommend. They said.. what you are doing is not acceptable. If you keep doing it.. I am gonna tell you why I don't like it.. and cut you off.



It worked didn't it?

Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.