wife preparing to leave me and kids

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If my W is truly at the WAW point not in love with me any more feels more love for OM even though that is suppossed to be done. What can I do. I've read the books but I don't see it having an affect. Turns out I should have learned about validation, active listening and being more posotive years ago. That falls in line with what she found with OM I was always glass half empty I just wish she had straight up told me we had that much trouble. I didn't see it.
so anything I do now would seem disingenuous so does that put me at LRT? There isn't even a 100% that she is done contacting OM.
She is set on D.