AS for putting that in your profile, go to "My Stuff" and add it to your signature. there are so many spaces allowed but keep playing with it.
Divorce is not fun by any means. I would say if it weren't for my kids I would have kicked him to the curb the moment he even hinted at his affair. He had cheated on me very early on in our marriage. Best advice I can give is picture the life you want and then figure out the steps to get there. Then don't expect to get there overnight.
Take the time to heal and really find yourself. Evaluate how you contributed to the issues in your marriage and how you might deal with those things differently in the future.
Hope we all can help.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory