As for how I'm doing lately, I'm ok. Working at staying in the moment. I still have my days where I miss my H and ruminate about things but when I do I try and redirect myself to the present. Yesterday was a good day, I was home all day while my car was at the garage (needed new spark plugs and an oil change) and I got a lot accomplished, only a couple things left on my to-do list. Before, I would have spent the entire day watching TV and playing on the computer, getting nothing done. So yeah, definitely a positive change.
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