I want to proceed in peace. I never thought that was possible while he was still with HER but he proved he could stand up to her and leave her at home while Ryan was in hospital. This less "in my face" approach is better. And who knows where they are at or who cares.
In a couple of months I will have to tell him about my upcoming move. But by then we should have a more open communication.
And with tongue in cheek I must say - I will bet it bothers maggot to know he is coming to my house and he and I are getting along. LOL!
And on that note - I have communicated fully with Josh about my discussions with Chuck and my decisions around visitation. And he thinks it is a good thing too. So there you go. That is how mature adults behave!