25, you did all that AFTER you started your A.

Anyway this is Punchys thread.

And dbmod, I am all for Punchy making his marriage work. And I pray that he will. I like many believe that if OM is in the picture it affects the LBS health and that is not good.

My advice is meant for people to regain self-respect through boundaries. And one boundary in a marriage that should be non-negotiable is you can't date/ML with other people.

Call me old fashioned...

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012