oh what a bad few days, i think H is having an EA which i wouldnt be surprised about afetr everything that has been going on. There is this OW that he talks too at least 3-4 times a week ive nticed on various mediums i.e. mobile, FB, SKYPE etc he tells me he doesnt even realy like her but i say to him why do you talk to her so often then if you dont like her? they used to work together but she has now left but they still keep in regular contact and to me are trying to be sneaky about it. OW has sent him sexy/flirty text messages one even stated what she wanted to do to him sexually but they said it was just a joke and that the whole team were sending them to each as a joke, the thing is i dont think she was joking, i'm not sure if anything has happened between them but i know that there has been oppourtunities in the past.
Last night i looked through his FB and there were messages they had been sending to each other saying when to meet up on SKYPE (which was at times when i'm not around) i confronted my H about this and we ended up having an arguement as he doesnt want to stop talking to her but would if i told him not too. The thing is i dont want to tell him not to talk to OW anymore as i am not comfortable with their R as if he didnt stop talking to OW and i find out in a couple months i would go ape, so i told him just to do whatever he wanted and i'll do the same.
Would have liked to of handled this better but i was so upset (still am)with everything that is going on i really dont know how much more i can take :0(
