GAG interesting you mention this "the therapist will be able to figure out pretty quickly that your H is depressed and find a way to address that"
That is exactly what happened in my case. Much of the conversations were focused on h's depression. The therapist suggested AD's and after about 6 months of talking about them h finally decided to see a Dr. and he prescribed the AD's.
I did research a pro-marriage therapist. GAG is right that is critical to success as well.
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