GAG interesting you mention this "the therapist will be able to figure out pretty quickly that your H is depressed and find a way to address that"

That is exactly what happened in my case. Much of the conversations were focused on h's depression. The therapist suggested AD's and after about 6 months of talking about them h finally decided to see a Dr. and he prescribed the AD's.

I did research a pro-marriage therapist. GAG is right that is critical to success as well.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"