Thanks for the guidance. I realize that in our State she would be able to have joint custody, but at least I would have the kids the majority of the time.

I come to this site over the last year for direction and information although I only joined back in October. The support and information I have found here has been tremendous. I will likely be a frequent visitor over the coming year.

Wife was in a really upbeat and happy mood tonight. Not what you would expect from someone who is about to dump the OM. I am going to be as positive and upbeat myself over the next 3 weeks and show her that I can move on with out her. I am not going to be down in the dumps while the world waits for her to decide what she wants to do.

Life will go on and so will I.