While you're gone, it looks like we're all playing on your thread! Hope you're having a great time and that your D does VERY well!
Rabbit, thanks for finding me on the alt! I would send you an e-mail there but I couldn't find the option......I REALLY liked this!
Originally Posted By: Lost Rabbit
I very calmly kept repeating well I know I have changed but Im not proving it to you, you have to find that out for yourself, together we can adapt to both the new US's..
Sanderika, I really like what you said here:
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I do not want it but am in total acceptance should it need to happen. I will understand the reasons now where as before I could not have understood. Is it maybe because I know we are close to each other and it appears to me and H that there is nothing or no one who can truly divide us. Am I delusional, I don't think so.
This ^^^^^ is fantastic! None of us want you to be D'ed, but it may take that for H to lower his resistance to you.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
He said that he just doesn't see us able to work it out. He said he loves me very much and is still in love with me. He said he left 5 years ago, not because he didn't love me but because he didn't like me and who I had become. He now realizes that I am the girl he fell in love with to begin with and doesn't know what to do at all. He said he believes what he sees is true but only I know for real what is the truth. Soooo, he doesn't trust me. It's a trust issue for him?!?!?
When I read this ^^^^^ I thought that maybe H needs to believe that the two of you have buried the old M and are establishing a new R. Is there some way you could persuade him of this?
Hope you're having a great time and that your D does VERY well!