SbH I agree. It is AMAZING how this works. I was kinda sad today again and I couldn't hid it from W. She was like "why are you so down?" I answered and she said "You know if you act like this is a self-fulfilling prophecy." (I think she was somewhat kidding) That snapped me out of it and I started to act happier. Then suddenly our interactions are great. She's in her room now working. She went out of her way to say that it wasn't because she wanted to be isolated, but because that's the warmest room in the house. It's freakin' cold outside tonight and we have a 100+ year old house. She also said that I could come out and hang with her if I want.
I keep thinking of this song lyric in regard to the whole DB situation.
"Cause whats left to lose? I've done enough, And if I fail then I fail but I gave it a shot"
Personally, I don't know how I feel about the whole detaching thing. Maybe I'm reading it wrong. I think to some extent detaching has the potential to do harm.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
