I think a lot of spouses come back because if money reasons and that is not my h situation. I think making a lot of money was a reason that he left for ow because his ego was so big. Im not saying this was the only reason but he is having a great time with ow with all the $ he has. the reason i asked him for necklace because i know that was something he loved doing was giving expensive gifts and I didnt want him to give them to me i wanted him to save the money or put it towards sons college . He saw this as me controlling him. i saw it as being a responsible parent and husband. thanks for sharing your story.
