The DB site has been SUCH a huge influence on me as I've experienced my STBXH's MLC. Sometimes I don't know what I'd have done w/o this info.
I've been (pretty cleanly) separated from H for 10 months when I asked him not to come home on dday. I've know for a while that I'd probably file for D early next year. I told my ex this today. I am admittedly overwhelmed a bit by all my emotions about this. But I know it is the right "next step" and is happening on what feels like the right time frame.
I guess this is a pretty boring thread--all I'm trying to say is I just moved to this board, I'm hoping to learn as much here as I did on the others, and BEST OF LUCK TO US ALL!
AMG
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
