wife preparing to leave me and kids

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Well I thought I was at a different state of progress until this weekend and today so I think I wil try your plan vs kindler advice I was given. So what on earth do I do with xmass does she get a gift or just from the kids shopping this weekend, its so messed up.

Does the drawing in work better than the kindler theory I should still at least be civil as we have been right?