Hi Patience, I saw your post while at the gym and wanted to respond as soon as possible.
I feel sad for you but your are not completely done unless you feel done!
Tonight, allow yourself to be sad, cry, grieve. It is a necessary step in healing.
Tomorow, do something for you. Hang with a friend (male or female). Move on for you. If you truly move on and stop worring about W she will notice. It's far from easy but lets face it, what choice do you have?
My thoughts are with you tonight Patience. Know that people REALLY DO care!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012