Hi Patience, I saw your post while at the gym and wanted to respond as soon as possible.

I feel sad for you but your are not completely done unless you feel done!

Tonight, allow yourself to be sad, cry, grieve. It is a necessary step in healing.

Tomorow, do something for you. Hang with a friend (male or female). Move on for you. If you truly move on and stop worring about W she will notice. It's far from easy but lets face it, what choice do you have?

My thoughts are with you tonight Patience. Know that people REALLY DO care!


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012